We all like to get experimental in the bedroom. Here’s our expert decoding what your favourite position says about you.
A look at the choice of manoeuvres between the sheets is a great tell-tale sign about personality traits, preferences and quirks in an individual. Sex therapist and counsellor Simran Chaddha decodes favourite positions and uses them to read into that kinky personality. Here is what your favourite position says about you:
The missionary man
Don’t dismiss him as jaded or boring. There is a lot to be said about stability, tenderness and someone who likes to colour within the lines. The body language is devoted towards you and it’s all about looking at you. He maintains eye contact while sharing one of the most intimate experiences one can have. It’s a sign of loyalty and dependability. It could also be a sign of borderline performance anxiety where he wants to constantly be reassured that he’s doing okay by reading your expressions and moves. There is no harm in shaking things up once in a while, so make sure you encourage him to do so.
As much fun as this is for the man, it sends out a fairly strong message to his partner. While she may not particularly dislike it, busting this move over and over will eventually distance you from her. The position hands over controls entirely to the man, leaving the woman literally at his mercy. A kinky move for couples, no doubt, it doesn’t exactly scream, ‘I love and respect you.’ A fixation towards this move stems from deep-rooted insecurity and confidence issues. The body language is distant, there is no eye contact and expresses a desire to control and feel ‘alpha male.’ He’s a stud more than a metrosexual. On the plus side, he’s open for adventure and will do anything that adds stars to his sexual escapades. Once in a while, it’s fun, but if you find yourself veering towards wanting to show her who’s the boss constantly, maybe its time you access your relationship quotient with your partner.