Take the following quiz to find out if getting back with your past fling is a good step to take or not…
In the relationship circuit, breakups, patch ups and rebounds are not quaint. In fact, it’s but common. Are you a part of the bandwagon where, post a breakup, you think you still can give the bond with that person a try? If you are unsure as to whether your ex should not just be a thing of the past, and wondering if a second chance is what the relationship deserves, here’s a list of questions you must answer before taking the plunge.
1. Have you cheated while you were with your ex-partner or vice versa?
A. Yes! My partner did cheat on me. And that’s what hurt me most.
B. No. We put an end to our relationship because it wasn’t working. None of us cheated on either.
2. Are you okay with how the relationship ended, and did both parties attain closure?
A. No. We have never spoken about how/why/when we decided to end the relationship.
B. Yes! We discussed breaking up and this was mutual.
3. How awkward was it post the breakup?
A. Extremely awkward actually… being civil while at a radius away to each other was difficult.
B. We are and have always been good friends, and thankfully that remains constant.
4. What is the major reason you think you want to get back to this ex?
A. I am lonely, bored, need some entertainment in life. And being single sucks!
B. We were great together…and I miss the times we had. I wish I could unwind time spent with him/her?
5. Tell your friends/family you are getting back to your ex. How do you think would they react?
A. I think they’d say, “What? Are you kidding me! After all that he/she put you through? Don’t do this.”
B. They would be extremely happy. Everyone felt we made an awesome couple. I think that is true.
If most of your answers are:
A. You should know this isn’t a wise decision. Getting back to your ex just because you are bored in life is the perfect recipe for disaster. You and your ex are zero compatible, and well, it’s high time you get over him/her. Move on if you want to be happy.
B. Your ex and you are meant to be, and we feel sorry that you both had to go through a breakup. We suggest you take it slow nonetheless. We understand a lot of people will be happy that you both get together, and so will you, but make sure you don’t rush into the decision.