Just when you’ve completed the grueling process of sorting out your feelings and coming to terms with the breakup, you start to notice signs that your ex may have other motives.
Does your ex want you back? Are you seeing what you think you’re seeing? Does he really have lingering feelings for you or is it a figment of your imagination?
These 8 signs will uncover the truth.
1. Unexpected phone calls.
Immediately after the break up you couldn’t pay your ex to dial your number… Now here we are a few months or weeks later, the reality of the breakup is setting in for him, and he’s probably realizing the grass isn’t greener on the other side. Now your phone is lighting up like a Christmas tree lol. The conversations are all positive, he just wants to check up on you, “See how you’ve been.”
2. He’s having trouble moving on.
So it’s been a couple of months since the breakup. It would be normal for an ex to either have a new prospect or already started a new relationship. The only problem is you hear through the grapevine that he’s still moping around wishing for another chance with you. When an ex has trouble moving on from the relationship that is a huge red flag that they are not ready to start a new relationship and is still holding a glimmer of hope that they could rekindle what you had.
3. Reminisce on the love we had.
It’s not just a lyric to a Mary J. Blige song, some exes enjoy reliving specific details of your past relationship.
This will come up in phone conversations as he mentions all the good times you had in the past. Or maybe he just decides to call and say “hello” on the date of an anniversary or special occasion. Either way he likely wants you back.
4. Mutual friends spill the beans…
The mutual friends you share with your ex have so much info to spill. They reveal conversations they’ve had detailing how much you are missed and if he could only have another chance how so many things would be different. No doubt he wants another shot to prove his love to you.
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