It really hurts to be in a relationship which you’re honest about and your woman is cheating on you. One funny trend I’ve noticed is that the bad guys get the honest ladies and the good guys get the ‘cheating’ ladies; so unfair. If you have noticed from my previous posts; make that love last and ten frequent lies men tell, my main aim of writing about relationship articles isn’t because I’m interested in mere gibberish but to strengthen bonds in relationships.
Many cheating ladies (especially the ones in the university) would tell you that money is the main reason they cheat. “I need money to take care of myself” they would tell you, well, that is just a black lie carefully wrapped in angelic clothing; a cheating lady would always be a cheating lady. Sorry for my show of anger but I just had to be blunt.
To all those honest men out there that only want an honest relationship from their jewel; this piece is for you. There are a thousand and one reasons women cheat but I bring you just 6 reasons women cheat.
1. WHEN SHE IS NOT FEELING WANTED
You really have to make a lady feel wanted always; the moment she feels anything less than that, doubts creep in. Such doubts can lead to misery and misery they say needs company. A shoulder to lean on can lead to so many things (coughs). Always make your woman feels wanted, brothers.
2. WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP GETS TOO BORING
Boredom can lead to so many things including an idle mind; and an idle man they say is the devil’s workshop and we all know what goes down in a devil’s workshop. Like I previously said in make that love last, change routines always, be spontaneous, always keep your lady guessing, keep her excited at all times. Be adventurous. When the relationship lacks that spark and passion, it could push your lady to cheating.
3. WHEN SHE FEELS THE RELATIONSHIP IS ENDING
One good turn deserves another and likewise one bad turn. Never keep her unsure about the relationship, always tell her your plans, make her feel she is a huge part of your future. Most women in relationships always think about the future. The moment she feels the relationship has no future, then your Eve might leave you Adam for probably Steve (smiles, just rhyming). But the message is, always make her feel she’s part of your future and not a bit-part player.
4. WHEN THE NEXT MAN SHOWS HER LOVE
A lot of women are too fragile, easy to deceive and very emotional. This is not really applicable to all women because many women are strong-willed but the fragile ones easily fall for this; once they see a little care from another man, their fragile nature becomes exploited.
5. IF SHE’S A FREAK
Not going to waste much lines here, if she is a freak, she’s a freak. May God help you both in that relationship. Smh
6. IF YOU ALWAYS COMPLAIN ABOUT HER
If you always complain about her, it means you don’t value her and if you don’t value her, someone else will. Easy does it. Women need to be shown care, not you acting like you don’t care. Less shouts, more attention, more pampering would do a lot of magic yea, thank me later.
There is a very distinct difference between why women cheat and why men cheat. Men cheat strictly for ***ual reasons but most women cheat for so many emotional reasons.
Have a blessed day people and a sweet relationship as well.