Like it or not, sex means a lot to women; in fact, it means more to them than it does to men. Forget the prude front they put up. A woman loves sex and when there is a connect with her man, she won’t hesitate to bring out her true colours.
However, most of them are not as expressive as men are and therefore, may not be able to voice out what they actually want you to do to them on bed.
We have compiled a list of those things women want men to do to them to give them the greatest time during sex.
Here we go:
1. Giving her an orgasm even before the real intercourse starts
Giving your woman an orgasm even before your first thrust should always be your first target because this is by far biggest thing women wish men did more of in bed. Most men don’t do this – instead, they clumsily plow straight to intercourse, thrash around as fast as possible and they are done, even before she gets into first gear.
For such men, foreplay usually consists of a few minutes of obligatory kissing, followed by a few minutes of obligatory breast stimulation, followed by a few minutes of obligatory cunnilingus until the ultimate goal of intercourse is reached. This isn’t what women want!
Aside that, giving her an orgasm will make her more responsive and much more likely to have another orgasm during intercourse and in that sense, sex becomes better for you, and for her.
2. Pay attention to hidden erogenous zones
For the average man, the obvious erogenous spots on a woman’s body and where they are likely to get aroused are the breasts, clitoris and the g-spot. And they pay so much attention to these places that they forget that there are hidden spots that are capable of giving pleasure to a woman.
Your woman does not want you to only pay attention to the obvious spots; she wants you to pay attention to her whole body.
This is because there are 16 other ‘hidden’ erogenous zones on her body which can give her pleasure, and which can actually make her more sensitive to vaginal stimulation. Most men don’t know about these, but if you’re one of the rare men who does, then she’ll be screaming your name in pleasure.